*Bonus* Conversation with Serendipiti Day of episode 96. Women's Communities: 12 Red Flags

All the other more personal stuff we want to share.

This is a continued conversation of episode 96. Women's Communities: 12 Red Flags with Serendipiti Day.

Included in this bonus convo:

• Dipiti’s intentions for joining a BDSM community

• Isabella’s intentions for joining radical feminist and birth liberation groups

• How Isabella managed to avoid moving to an in person community of “liked-minded women”

• The subtle process of loyalty becoming currency and favoritism

• Shedding light on why Dipiti and Isabella aren’t going back to certain women’s festivals

• When story telling is used as an implicit threat

• Is radical feminism a cult?

• How “self-responsibility / victim consciousness” frameworks can be weaponized

• How having a shared experience of losing friends / being ostracized for knowing what a woman is, isn’t necessarily a strong enough foundation for a lasting friendship

• How participating in MLMs creates an extraction lens for everyone you meet - aka new connections are prioritized on gals becoming your downline $$$

• How we deal with the guilt and shame of having promoted groups, companies, and influencers we’re no longer affiliated with

• The role of therapy after exiting cult-y spaces & narc abuse recovery

• How constantly trying to get to the root of things became a disability and an inability to see the bigger picture that warped our sense of reality

• Breaking the bubble of the fictional “us” & noticing exit patterns of former members of various online and in person groups