*Bonus* Conversation with Serendipiti Day of episode 96. Women's Communities: 12 Red Flags
All the other more personal stuff we want to share.
This is a continued conversation of episode 96. Women's Communities: 12 Red Flags with Serendipiti Day.
Included in this bonus convo:
Dipiti’s intentions for joining a BDSM community
Isabella’s intentions for joining radical feminist and birth liberation groups
How Isabella managed to avoid moving to an in person community of “liked-minded women”
The subtle process of loyalty becoming currency and favoritism
Shedding light on why Dipiti and Isabella aren’t going back to certain women’s festivals
When story telling is used as an implicit threat
Is radical feminism a cult?
How “self-responsibility / victim consciousness” frameworks can be weaponized
How having a shared experience of losing friends / being ostracized for knowing what a woman is, isn’t necessarily a strong enough foundation for a lasting friendship
How participating in MLMs creates an extraction lens for everyone you meet - aka new connections are prioritized on gals becoming your downline $$$
How we deal with the guilt and shame of having promoted groups, companies, and influencers we’re no longer affiliated with
The role of therapy after exiting cult-y spaces & narc abuse recovery
How constantly trying to get to the root of things became a disability and an inability to see the bigger picture that warped our sense of reality
Breaking the bubble of the fictional “us” & noticing exit patterns of former members of various online and in person groups